Empowering Young Voices

The Transformative Benefits of Child-Inclusive Practice in Family Dispute Resolution

 Family separations and disputes are challenging, especially for the children involved. As Psychologists and Family Dispute Resolution Practitioners (FDRPs) we understand the importance of ensuring that your children’s voices are heard during these difficult times. That’s why at the Australian Family Mediation Group (AFMG) we specialise in child-inclusive Family Dispute Resolution (FDR) practices, a proven approach that not only prioritises your child’s well-being but also leads to more effective and lasting resolutions for your family.

Giving Your Children a Voice in the Process

One of the most powerful aspects of our child-inclusive practice is that it empowers your children by actively involving them in the decision-making process. Unlike traditional methods where children are often left out of critical discussions, our approach ensures that their opinions and feelings are heard and valued.

At the AFMG, we provide a safe and supportive environment where children can express their thoughts through age-appropriate interview methods facilitated by our expert Psychologists and Child Consultants. This helps reduce their anxiety and allows them to feel more in control during a time of uncertainty. When children feel respected and heard, they experience better emotional outcomes, and as a parent, you will gain peace of mind knowing that their needs are at the forefront of every decision.

Creating Developmentally Sensitive Parenting Arrangements

Understanding your child’s true needs and concerns is crucial in creating parenting arrangements that work. Our highly supportive and structured processes ensure that parents receive direct insights from their children — guided by our expert practitioners — so you can make informed decisions that are genuinely in your child’s best interest.

For example, your child might share concerns about transitioning between households or express a preference for certain routines. By incorporating their feedback, we help you develop arrangements that are not only practical but also deeply aligned with your child’s emotional well-being. These child-centred solutions lead to more sustainable agreements, making your co-parenting journey more workable and sustainable.

Reducing Conflict for Sustainable Agreements

Family disputes escalate when emotions run high. Our child-inclusive practice helps to defuse these tensions by refocusing discussions on what truly matters: your child’s well-being. At the AFMG, we facilitate a shift from confrontation to collaboration by presenting your child’s perspective in a way that encourages cooperative problem-solving within the FDR process leading to the potential for more sustainable parenting agreements.

When parents see the impact of their conflict on their child, they are often more willing to put aside differences and work together toward a shared solution. This change in approach not only reduces stress and animosity but also leads to quicker, more amicable resolutions—saving you time, money, and emotional strain.

Supporting Your Child’s Long-Term Emotional Well-Being

As an expert practice of highly experienced and respected professionals we are committed to fostering your child’s long-term emotional health. By including your child in the resolution process, we help to mitigate some of the emotional distress that can accompany family breakdowns. Children who feel heard are more likely to adapt to changes in their family structure, resulting in a smoother transition.

Strengthening Parent-Child Relationships

Child-inclusive practice not only benefits your child but can also strengthen your relationship with them. As mental health professionals and conflict management specialists, we help parents gain a deeper understanding of their child’s emotional world within family separation, which can lead to more empathetic and responsive parenting.

The Australian Family Mediation Group: An Expert Practice

At the AFMG, we are dedicated to providing the highest level of care and professionalism in Family Dispute Resolution. Our child-inclusive approach is tailored to meet the specific needs of your family, ensuring that your child’s voice is heard and respected at every step. With our expert team by your side, you can trust that you are making the best choice for your family’s future.

Contact us today to learn more about how our child-inclusive Family Dispute Resolution services can help you create a brighter future for your family.

Sue Boursiani

Family Dispute Resolution Practitioner

Sue Boursiani is a Senior Psychologist, trained Child Consultant and accredited Family Dispute Resolution Practitioner with over 25 years’ experience working with children, young people and their families.  Drawing from extensive experience in developmentally sensitive and trauma-informed practice, Sue offers highly tailored family mediation services, skilfully navigating challenging family transitions to resolve disputes for both parenting and financial matters.  Through her work as a Child Consultant, Sue adeptly integrates the voices of children, positively shaping post-separation parenting with empathy and insight.  With a wealth of experience in complex family dynamics and relationship breakdown, Sue is committed to empowering individuals going through  separation. She helps them achieve workable and sustainable resolutions in financial matters and co-parenting arrangements for their children,  effectively avoiding protracted conflict and court involvement.

Tim Smith

Family Dispute Resolution Practitioner

Tim is one of the co-founders of the Australian Family Mediation Group and has a diverse background in conflict management and mediation having worked in a variety of family-oriented intervention-based services. He has fine-tuned a strong, unique and effective style of family mediation where his primary goal is for family members in conflict to reach sustainable parenting and property agreements while avoiding where possible the mental anguish and high costs of Court-based litigation. Tim is a straight talker, with a compassionate and results-oriented approach. He also holds several post graduate degrees including a masters degree in mental health, and a second masters degree in conflict management and resolution. 

Katrina Thornley

Family Dispute Resolution Practitioner

Katrina is a qualified family dispute resolution practitioner and experienced psychologist. She has worked with numerous families going through separation and divorce. Her calm, confident approach, together with her experience and understanding of people, helps her to be an effective, solution focused mediator.